The Crossroads Conversation
You already suspect something isn’t right — you're just not sure what to do with that yet.
Your life doesn’t feel like it fits anymore. It used to — or close enough that you didn’t question it.
But something has changed, and you can’t ignore it the way you used to.
The Crossroads Conversation
You already suspect something isn’t right — you're just not sure what to do with that yet.
Your life doesn’t feel like it fits anymore. It used to — or close enough that you didn’t question it.
But something has changed, and you can’t ignore it the way you used to.
There’s nothing you could point to and say “that’s the problem.”
Instead, there’s a quiet, persistent sense that something isn’t working — and you’re the only one who sees it.
So, you keep carrying it.
There’s grief in that. No one wears black. No one knows to bring casseroles.
No one knows you’re mourning a future that hasn’t shown up.
There’s nothing you could point to and say “that’s the problem.”
Instead, there’s a quiet, persistent sense that something isn’t working — and you’re the only one who sees it.
So, you keep carrying it.
There’s grief in that. No one wears black.
No one knows to bring casseroles.
No one knows you’re mourning a future that hasn’t shown up.
What Will actually Help
Right Now
Not advice. Not a plan. Not someone in your life giving you their opinions.
What you need is a clear look at what’s happening — and what it’s costing you. In a space that’s private — with someone who isn’t involved.
That's what The Crossroads Conversation is.
What Will actually Help Right Now
Not advice. Not a plan. Not someone in your life giving you their opinions.
What you need is a clear look at what’s happening — and what it’s costing you.
In a space that’s private — with someone who isn’t involved.
That's what The Crossroads Conversation is.
How It Works
Two sessions. Two weeks apart.
Session One: We look at what’s going on — not what it looks like from the outside, but what it’s doing to you on the inside. What it’s quietly taking from you.
In between: Homework — not busywork, the kind of work that lets a new viewpoint evolve and settle in.
There’s Voxer access when you start to wobble so you aren’t sitting alone with your unsettled thoughts.
Session Two: We look at your options — what each one means, and what it could ask of you.
$498
How It Works
Two sessions.
Two weeks apart.
Session One: We look at what’s going on — not what it looks like from the outside, but what it’s doing to you on the inside.
What it’s quietly taking from you.
In between: Homework — not busywork, the kind of work that lets a new viewpoint evolve and settle in.
And there’s Voxer access when you start to wobble so you aren’t sitting alone with your unsettled thoughts.
Session Two: We look at your options — what each one means, and what it could ask of you.
$498
What You Leave With
Clarity about what’s happening — and what your options look like. You get to decide what to do with that — no one else.
What This is Not
This is not therapy. It’s not crisis support. It doesn’t include hypnosis. It’s not someone telling you what to do. It’s a private space to finally hear yourself think.
What You Leave With
Clarity about what’s happening — and what your options look like.
You get to decide what to do with that — no one else.
What This is Not
This is not therapy. It’s not crisis support. It doesn’t include hypnosis.
It’s not someone telling you what to do.
It’s a private space to finally hear yourself think.
A Note on Safety
If the people in your life sometimes make you fearful — that’s worth paying attention to.
It may not feel like a crisis, but even so, The National Domestic Violence Hotline can help you think through what you’re experiencing, confidentially and at no cost.
Phone: 1-800-799-7233 | Text: START to 88788 | Chat: thehotline.org
A Note on Safety
If the people in your life sometimes make you fearful — that’s worth paying attention to.
It may not feel like a crisis, but even so, The National Domestic Violence Hotline can help you think through what you’re experiencing, confidentially and at no cost.
Phone: 1-800-799-7233 | Text: START to 88788 | Chat: thehotline.org
Who the Crossroads Conversation is For
Something is shifting and you can’t quite put your finger on it. You feel things differently — what never bothered you before is now frustrating.
That frustration is calling out for your attention.
You’re not ready to share it with friends and family. You feel too vulnerable to open it up to their opinions.
But you need to say it out loud to someone. Somewhere private.
This is for you.
Who the CrossroaDs Conversation is For
Something is shifting and you can’t quite put your finger on it.
You feel things differently — what never bothered you before is now frustrating.
That frustration is calling out for your attention.
You’re not ready to share it with friends and family.
You feel too vulnerable to open it up to their opinions.
But you need to say it out loud to someone. Somewhere private.
This is for you.
Looking for Something Else
If you already know what needs to change and you’re ready to act — there may be a different starting point that meets you where you are.
The Let's Talk call will sort that out.
Looking for Something Else
If you already know what needs to change and you’re ready to act — there may be a different starting point that meets you where you are.
The Let’s Talk call will sort that out.
I'm Jo Ann Kobuke
I learned a long time ago that the people closest to you aren’t always the best ones to talk to when you’re working something out.
They’re not always the right audience for the discussions you most need to have.
The Crossroads Conversation is a safe place to have those discussions. A space to say things out loud. Try them on. Hear how they land.
You can talk with someone who isn’t part of your circle and has no stake in what you decide.
My experience hearing the undercurrent beneath the words allows me to reflect it back in a way that helps you think more clearly.
You’ve been turning it over long enough. It’s time to say it out loud.
Certified Coach, SeattleCoach (ICF Approved training),
Certified Hypnotherapist, 5-PATH® Hypnosis System
I'm Jo Ann Kobuke
I learned a long time ago that the people closest to you aren’t always the best ones to talk to when you’re working something out.
They’re not always the right audience for the discussions you most need to have.
The Crossroads Conversation is a safe place to have those discussions. A space to say things out loud. Try them on. Hear how they land.
You can talk with someone who isn’t part of your circle and has no stake in what you decide.
My experience hearing the undercurrent beneath the words allows me to reflect it back in a way that helps you think more clearly.
You’ve been turning it over long enough. It’s time to say it out loud.
Certified Coach, SeattleCoach
(ICF Approved training),
Certified Hypnotherapist, 5-PATH® Hypnosis System
Let's Talk
If something here feels true — even uncomfortably so — that’s worth looking at.
One conversation. No pressure. You’ll know quickly whether this is the right space for you.
Let's Talk
If something here feels true — even uncomfortably so — that’s worth looking at.
One conversation. No pressure. You’ll know quickly whether this is the right space for you.
The Crossroads Conversation
Two private 1:1 sessions — two weeks apart
Voxer support for the full two weeks between sessions — Monday through Friday, 24-hour turnaround on weekday messages
$498
The Crossroads Conversation
Two private 1:1 sessions — two weeks apart
Voxer support for the full two weeks between sessions — Monday through Friday, 24-hour turnaround on weekday messages
$498